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MEET SHANTI VANI

Transforming Grief  Specialist

My Story

 

In life, I have suffered many losses -- loss of safety, hope, trust, self- respect, health, mental health, divorce, moving, pets, and job. Deaths in the family include six high school friends who died in a single car accident, a friend with AIDS, another friend to suicide, both parents with heart disease and dementia, two young great grandsons, daughter with depression and addiction and sister to homicide.

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In 1978, I was hospitalized in a state psychiatric institution after an extended period of serious trauma and loss. I was labeled "schizophrenic" and forced into "treatment" at Westborough State Hospital in Massachusetts. I had given birth to four babies and was suffering extreme anxiety while separated from them. In '79, I moved to Gainesville Florida with my young daughters, where I eventually found refuge and peace. I worked cleaning houses, as a nanny, owning a Family Child Care Home, and as a Registered Respiratory Therapist in an area hospital.

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As a single mother, I did my best to raise my children throughout the journey. It wasn't easy and they suffered, too. In fact, my daughter Naomi died at the age of 38 after a lifelong struggle with addicton and depression. 

 

Through the work of Transforming Grief, I have been able to forgive myself and others in my life for many painful events and misdeeds. I have learned about how grief and trauma are passed down from one generation to the next and I am doing my best to break the cycle in my family and community.

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Even in the midst of traumatic events, there were moments when I hoped that one day, I would be able to help someone else. Now, that day has come. In November 2020, I was certified through the Grief Recovery Institute as a Grief Recovery Specialist.

 

Currently, I facilitate my own unique curricula. The 8-week programs are Transforming Grief - An Evolutionary Process and First Responders Speak

 

Also, I teach two 4-week programs. They are all titled Transforming Grief - Supporting Young People and Transforming Grief - Peer to Peer.

 

These programs can be done either in groups or individually, in-person or on Zoom, depending on the need. For more info, please visit the Programs page.

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I want to thank all the people in my life who have helped me to have hope. So many people have inspired, guided and challenged me along the way. 

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In these trying times, it is so hard to find effective help. In the Transforming Grief Community, we have a safe place to gather for mutual support.

    

Please feel free to text, call or email.

Text/Phone: 352-225-1385     

Email: shantivani@cox.net   

 

To view a brief video about my story of loss, click:     

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My Credentials

Megan Devine's Grief Care Professional Certificate
The After Institute - May 2023

QPR (Suicide Prevention Training)
Florida LEADS Project - December 2021

WRAP (Wellness Recovery Action Plan)
 Copeland Center - November 2021

Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist Training
Grief Recovery Institute - January 2021

Grief Recovery Method Specialist Training
Grief Recovery Institute - November 2020

Counseling Grief Clients Certificate
PESI, Inc - October 2020

Trauma and Addiction Certificate
The Meadows Behavioral Healthcare - October 2020

Hospice Volunteer Training
Haven Hospice ET York Center - 2018

End of Life Doula Training (INELDA)
International End of Life Doula Association - June 2018

Savvy Caregiver Training
Elder Options of North Central Florida - March 2017

A.S. Degree in Respiratory Care
Santa Fe Community College - December 2008

Child Development Associate Certificate

Council for Professional Regulation - February 2003

Art of Play Therapy Certificate

Florida Board of Clinical Social Work - June 2002

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